Chapter 12
SUMMING up, then, we have as the first tenet of success: Act as if it were impossible to fail.
Beginning to put this into practice, we discover that the first demand upon us is that we should reclaim as much as possible of the energy which now goes into reverie or into time-killing, and devote it to purposeful activity, to action toward an end. We act by ignoring all memories or apprehensions of failure, by refusing to attach importance to temporary discomfort or past pain. We learn not to court frustration by using an attitude or tone which leaves any opportunity for rebuff or non-cooperation. We exercise our minds in trial performances in order to have them fully under our control when the occasion to use them in an expert way arises. With the imagination we painlessly explore all the possible reaches of our lives and constantly provide ourselves with projects of future interests to such an extent that we shall not fall back into day dreaming.
We deliberately make for ourselves an invigorating mental climate, and in this atmosphere, freed of doubts and anxieties, we act.
In the last few chapters we have been considering these facets of successful action one by one. Now it must be remembered that, however correct and suggestive such detailed considerations may be, they suffer badly in one manner: their tempo, so to speak, has had to be altered in order to show them minutely.
A slow-motion picture of ball-players in action, of golfers, of a tennis match, is sometimes of inestimable value to these who are learning to play. The muscular effort behind a sudden dexterous turn of the body, in its normal tempo far too quick for the eye to catch, is shown in the retarded film in all its subtlety. But we gain our insight into the technique of difficult plays by losing sight, for the moment, of another aspect.
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Chapter 12
SUMMING up, then, we have as the first tenet of success:
Act as if it were impossible to fail.
Beginning to put this into practice, we discover that the first
demand upon us is that we should reclaim as much as
possible of the energy which now goes into reverie or into
time-killing, and devote it to purposeful activity, to action
toward an end. We act by ignoring all memories or
apprehensions of failure, by refusing to attach importance
to temporary discomfort or past pain. We learn not to court
frustration by using an attitude or tone which leaves any
opportunity for rebuff or non-cooperation. We exercise our
minds in trial performances in order to have them fully
under our control when the occasion to use them in an
expert way arises. With the imagination we painlessly
explore all the possible reaches of our lives and constantly
provide ourselves with projects of future interests to such
an extent that we shall not fall back into day dreaming.
We deliberately make for ourselves an invigorating mental
climate, and in this atmosphere, freed of doubts and
anxieties, we act.
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In the last few chapters we have been considering these
facets of successful action one by one. Now it must be
remembered that, however correct and suggestive such
detailed considerations may be, they suffer badly in one
manner: their tempo, so to speak, has had to be altered in
order to show them minutely.
A slow-motion picture of ball-players in action, of golfers, of
a tennis match, is sometimes of inestimable value to these
who are learning to play. The muscular effort behind a
sudden dexterous turn of the body, in its normal tempo far
too quick for the eye to catch, is shown in the retarded film
in all its subtlety. But we gain our insight into the technique
of difficult plays by losing sight, for the moment, of another
aspect.
You will remember how, in such pictures, the player glides
languorously through the air, the ball curves slowly towards
the racquet, touches it with a soft impact and slides slowly
away again. Illuminating as these pictures are, they are also
always irresistibly comic: the leap, the crack, the rapidity of
the game as we know it is gone, replaced by a twilit,
dreaming gentleness.
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Now, to consider the technique of success in these pages, we
have had to sacrifice pace to analysis in just this way. The
actual tempo of success, while it should not have the
nervousness or strain that is almost inevitable in a
competitive contest, is quicker, smoother, more brisk than
any book analyzing it can ever show. There is a delightful
conciseness in successful action. "I know I'm doing a good
picture if I'm painting just as fast as I can move," a great
artist said to a group of friends recently.
"The minute I dabble I know I'm stalling, that there's
something I'm not seeing right; when I'm right it's almost
like play."
There is undoubtedly something game-like about pertinent
activity: those distressful clichés of a few years ago, "the
advertising game," "the engineering game," "the restaurant
game," had some excuse in reality. The vocabulary of men
who are successful in the sense that they have amassed huge
fortunes abounds in terms taken over from the jargon of
sports: "A fast one," "Out of bounds," and so on. And
however unlike the big business ambition of such a man
one's own personal idea of success may be, there is
something to be deduced from the frequency of recreation-
terms when stories of success are in question. Purposeful
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action seems quicker, clearer more straightforward and
enjoyable than any other. In reality, you may be working
more slowly and carefully than ordinarily; still, the fact that
there is no confusion of issues, no part of your mind off
wool-gathering as you move, gives an unmistakable "tone"
to activities which are being carried on in the proper way.
It is just this tone that you are setting yourself to recapture
by imagination when you remember the mood of an earlier
success. Once you have found it in the past, made use of it
for present action, and noted the similarity in pace which
results, you will soon be able to strike the right rhythm
without the elaborate preliminary imaginative activity.
Further, this rhythm sometimes crops out unexpectedly, in
the middle of unimportant events; it is a promise that, if
you can get away and at work, you will find yourself "in
vein." So you will come to recognize its onset and be able to
turn it to your advantage.
This feeling of pace, or tone, or rhythm - it represents itself
differently to differing temperaments - will be your evidence
that you are headed the right way. This is no
recommendation to hasten your physical action in working.
That may or may not come to pass. Very often it does; in
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other cases undue haste has been one of the contributions
of the Will to Fail, which, aping the decisiveness of
authoritative motion, allowed several essentials to good
work to be overlooked or skimped.
It is not so much any real briskness that is being considered
here as it is the fact that unimpeded movement in a forward
direction is pleasant and rhythmical, movement which goes
unwaveringly towards success.
Let us, for another reductio ad absurdum, consider one
great class of successes, of which almost everyone has had
some personal experience, or at the very least has met in the
lives of those about him: the state called the courage of
desperation.
In the most extreme cases, this courage arises because some
catastrophe or series of misfortunes has completely wiped
out every alternative to success. "He has nothing to lose,"
we say of one in this situation. Very well, then; he acts with
a directness and daring which he could not ordinarily
command. So often that it has become a matter of legend
for us, this action is attended with overwhelming success. If
you will remember the third victim of the Will to Fail in an
earlier chapter, you will recall that he had made a state of
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desperation into a superstitious prerequisite to
accomplishment. Quite misreading the situation, he came to
believe that the prospect of utter vanquishment would, each
time, cause Fate to relent. What he entirely overlooked was
that when he had reached such straits that he dared not fail
he invariably acted as he should always act: as if it were
impossible to fail. Without exception in this state he
succeeded. Inextricably involved in the meshes of his bad
and emotional thinking, he invited failure as the only way to
spur himself to effort. To his acquaintances he inevitably
recalled the crazy hero of world-wide fame, the man who hit
himself on the head with a hammer because it felt so good
when he stopped.
It was and is all very serious to him.
But remove the absurdity from these examples of the
courage of desperation, and we have the sense. Desperation
does cut off one alternative. But desperation is not needed,
is not the only tool which will cut away the possibility of
failure. Imagination will do the work even better and more
neatly. And we are left with Courage facing in-the-right-
direction.
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Courage facing in the right direction is the sine qua non of
success. It is to reach that stage that we put ourselves
through exercises in flexibility and restraint, learn to turn
imagination away from apprehension and into useful
channels, determine to act wisely in minor matters in order
to store up courage for the major issues of our lives.
We use our heads to get the greatest good from our gifts and
abilities, refusing ourselves the weakening privileges of
dreaming, avoiding responsibilities, following the line of
least resistance, acting childishly.
Success, for any sane adult, is exactly equivalent to doing
one's best. What that best may be, what its farthest reaches
may include, we can discover only by freeing ourselves
completely from the Will to Fail.
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